{"id":2158,"date":"2023-09-22T21:33:13","date_gmt":"2023-09-22T21:33:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/?page_id=2158"},"modified":"2025-07-06T01:52:12","modified_gmt":"2025-07-06T01:52:12","slug":"advance-directive","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/advance-directive\/","title":{"rendered":"Advance Directive"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"2158\" class=\"elementor elementor-2158\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-94209ff elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"94209ff\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1145fef\" data-id=\"1145fef\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a57983b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a57983b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Advance Directives<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c849873 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c849873\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-691df7c8\" data-id=\"691df7c8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;gradient&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15f008ca elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"15f008ca\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u201cAn Advance Directive is only as strong as the\u00a0surrogate who enforces it.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ec20057 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7ec20057\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Final Exit Network newsletter Fall, 2020<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f3b1130 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f3b1130\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e147a7d\" data-id=\"e147a7d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d70fae elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"1d70fae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"basics\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f62a90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2f62a90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">SOME BASICS<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-839609b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"839609b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cd95dac\" data-id=\"cd95dac\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c7aa04d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c7aa04d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Now that you have done extensive <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/planning\/\">Planning<\/a>, it is time to get all that effort condensed into your advance directive.<\/p>\n<p>Advance Directives (ADs) are the legal way one goes about giving instructions to others for your health care when you can\u2019t speak for yourself.&nbsp; The others, especially your designated agent, need to know what your decisions would likely be if you were able to speak out. Advance directives combine two prior documents, the living will and the durable power of attorney for health care. Some states still have these two.&nbsp; Here the term Advance Directive or AD includes livings wills with power of attorney.<\/p>\n<p>Where does the term \u201cadvance directive\u201d come from?&nbsp; The Supreme Court of the United States says we have a <span class=\"tooltip\">constitutional right<span class=\"tooltiptext\">Some  states have exceptions if the principal is pregnant.<\/span><br>\n<\/span> to forego treatment, which includes stopping treatment.&nbsp; State laws allow a person to:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cf4f07d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cf4f07d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-66a7d7f\" data-id=\"66a7d7f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d4974d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"d4974d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ol>\n<li>express now what s\/he wants in the future, when s\/he can\u2019t speak for self, i.e., when capacity is lost. <\/li> \n<li>give to someone authority to speak for her or him.  So the word \u201cadvance\u201d means <b>write or speak now for action later.<\/b><\/li> \n<\/ol>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-471250d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"471250d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e89cbaf\" data-id=\"e89cbaf\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9fe97c7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9fe97c7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>There are many forms of advance directives to chose from. Many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aarp.org\/caregiving\/financial-legal\/free-printable-advance-directives\/?cmp=KNC-DSO-CAREGIVING-AdvanceDirectives-22760-GOOG-AdvancedDirectivesForms-Exact-NonBrand&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwgNanBhDUARIsAAeIcAtlsGif5mXpFkWQZKaLMC81EidgDlGrpUwWAcJB2ufcwInKvEprF0UaAgLJEALw_wcB&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds\">states have statutory forms which can be found here<\/a>. Lawyers have forms.\u00a0 Hospitals have forms. Forms can be found on the internet. A few forms are mentioned in the <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/deep-dive\/\">Deep Dive<\/a> section and in the <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/resources-other-advance-directives\/\">Resources\/Other Advance Directives<\/a> section.<\/p><p>This website has an <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Advance-Health-Care-Directive_v16c_6-13-24_filled.pdf\">Advance Directive form<\/a>, discussed below.<\/p><p>This website has two advance directive forms.\u00a0 The first is a general one that anyone can use.\u00a0 The second is directed specifically to people who have early-stage dementia.<\/p><p>Behind the options often are biases.\u00a0 There is only one bias that matters:\u00a0 yours. With your planning, you know what you want.\u00a0 So feel free to change any form to fit your wishes, or even start from scratch \u2013 without a form (but forms are easier, especially ones designed for your state).<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3cc9ed0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"3cc9ed0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"elements\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b3ce7d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b3ce7d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f0ee246\" data-id=\"f0ee246\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19d39dd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"19d39dd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">ELEMENTS OF ADVANCE DIRECTIVES<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a2bfe1c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a2bfe1c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-cda538a\" data-id=\"cda538a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ba492da elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ba492da\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin: 10px 0 0 0;\">It is recommended that your AD address the problem of getting dementia. If your AD form doesn&#8217;t cover it (the one here does) then a dementia supplement should be used.\u00a0 Whether you have it in the directive or the supplement, be sure to address dementia in your letter to your agent (see the list below of topics for the letter).<\/p><p style=\"margin: 10px 0 0 0;\">The form of directive discussed here doesn&#8217;t need a dementia supplement, as dementia is covered without mentioning the word &#8220;dementia&#8221; (Choice #5 at the bottom of page 2 of the directive); with this form you still need to address dementia in your letter.<\/p><p style=\"margin: 10px 0 0 0;\">Here are the elements found in most advance directive forms.\u00a0 You<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b72916 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"1b72916\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul>\n<li>state the medical treatment(s) or quality of life you want (or don't want) when you can\u2019t speak for yourself.<\/li> \n<li>designate the person who will speak for you when you can\u2019t speak for yourself.  This person is called your agent.  You are the principal.  \n <\/li> \n<li>give the names and addresses of <\/li> \n<ul><li>\n    the principal\n<\/li>\n<li>\n  her or his primary doctor  \n<\/li>\n<li>\n   the agent and alternate agent(s) \n<\/li><\/ul>\n<li>\n   state your burial wishes.\n<\/li>\n<li>\n   donate your organs if you wish. \n<\/li>\n<li>\n    provide for formal execution.\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6243efa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6243efa\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1669d65\" data-id=\"1669d65\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c346a23 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c346a23\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/question_mark_150w.png\" title=\"question_mark_150w\" alt=\"Question mark\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8432de1\" data-id=\"8432de1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1a23d89 elementor-widget-mobile__width-auto elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1a23d89\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The first two are the key: What do you want?\u00a0 And who is going to carry out your wishes?\u00a0 You are free to state your wishes \u2013 there are no content restrictions except in few states.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-998c35a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"998c35a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-881624c\" data-id=\"881624c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0b5f2d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0b5f2d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Your agent can be anyone you trust, who will, hopefully, be aggressive in carrying out your wishes..<\/p><p>There is one strict requirement. Advance directives must be executed in the manner prescribed by law in the state in which you reside. The most prevalent ways are notarization or <span class=\"tooltip\">witnessing by two persons.<br \/><span class=\"tooltiptext\">If witnesses are used most states have limitations on who the witnesses can\u2019t be, such as those that are your health care givers, and\/or are those that are mentioned in your will or estate plan. <\/span><\/span><\/p><p>The execution requirements of all states can found <a href=\"https:\/\/www.findlaw.com\/estate\/living-will\/living-wills--state-laws.html\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ea950e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ea950e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-31942e2\" data-id=\"31942e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f33642 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"2f33642\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"incap\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e538cb5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e538cb5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ab91c95\" data-id=\"ab91c95\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-36d6e70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"36d6e70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">INCAPACITY INVOKES AGENT POWERS<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7a9f30a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7a9f30a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7d4669b\" data-id=\"7d4669b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ba05f48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ba05f48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>When someone can\u2019t speak for her or him self, s\/he has lost mental capacity, or is said to be incapacitated. In legal matters the term is competency, which is more strict. Unfortunately the terms are often used interchangeably.<\/p><p>Doctors often determine a patient\u2019s <span class=\"tooltip\">capacity <span class=\"tooltiptext\">Competency is often used in lieu of capacity.<\/span><br \/><\/span> by asking questions; they will ask do you <b>understand<\/b>:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-013426d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"013426d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a912d1f\" data-id=\"a912d1f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73ff530 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"73ff530\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul>\n<li>what your illness is and what the disease is doing to you. <\/li> \n<li>what the progression is likely to be. <\/li> \n<li>what the possible treatments are and the difference between them. <\/li> \n \n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ccdf67f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ccdf67f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-71d1cec\" data-id=\"71d1cec\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-52e18e1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"52e18e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>One can have decisional capacity for her or his health care without having the ability to understand technical medical terms, or other complex matters such as the stock market or finances.<\/p><p>If you lack capacity by law you cannot speak for yourself. Therefore, others will be making medical decisions for you. If there is no advance healthcare directive, then state law specifies which relative(s) speaks for you. With an advance directive the one that will speak for you is the agent you have designated. The agent is often also called the proxy or the surrogate.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7bb5f10 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7bb5f10\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-09765cb\" data-id=\"09765cb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c94c44 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"6c94c44\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"agent\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-92ec745 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"92ec745\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">THE POWER OF YOUR HEALTHCARE AGENT<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fd2d57e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fd2d57e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0c7366c\" data-id=\"0c7366c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f9b6c4b elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f9b6c4b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>At any time you are incapacitated by injury or disease, your surrogate can revoke, change or add medical treatments. Doctors must comply as if you were speaking.\u00a0 When the agent&#8217;s decision incidentally leads to death, is the agent at risk criminally? The answer is no. But when the decision is to intentionally cause death, the answer is generally yes. This is true in Iowa and perhaps a few other states.\u00a0 When the intended death comes from an advance directive (called Stopping Eating and Drinking by Advance Directive), the answer is that there is no criminal risk in Nevada, Vermont and Arizona. There is criminal risk in Iowa.\u00a0 In the remainder of the states the laws are not clear.\u00a0 For more information on this issue, watch this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ZcBRtcJNfEM\">video by law professor Thaddeus Pope<\/a>\u00a0 and read the instructions to the second <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/early_dementia_directive.pdf\">advance directive form in this website, for people with early dementia<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f82b887 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f82b887\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e1655ed\" data-id=\"e1655ed\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9faab3b elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"9faab3b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"uniqueform\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ba9763 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7ba9763\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">TWO UNIQUE, AND PERHAPS RADICAL, QUALITY OF LIFE ADVANCE DIRECTIVE FORMS<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8794c1c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8794c1c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-15760a5\" data-id=\"15760a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3711a14 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"3711a14\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"choices\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d96361 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2d96361\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">GENERAL FORM<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b51dad5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b51dad5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a82fc21\" data-id=\"a82fc21\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f8bbaf2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f8bbaf2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The author of this website has developed an <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Advance-Health-Care-Directive_v16c_6-13-24_filled.pdf\">Advance Directive form<\/a> that is unique in several respects:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-763b94b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"763b94b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dedabf\" data-id=\"3dedabf\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fb24c4f elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"fb24c4f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul>\n<li>It focuses solely on quality of life.<\/li> \n<li>It is short. <\/li> \n<li>Its key provisions are on one page \u2013 easy to find and read in an emergency. <\/li> <li>It uses  a \u201cletter to my agent\u201d which becomes an important adjunct to the directive. <\/li> <li>It has a progression of choices that go further than most forms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a380ffa elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a380ffa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The first page is for names: yours, your doctor\u2019s, your agent\u2019s and alternate agent.\u00a0 Addresses and phone numbers are asked for too.<\/p><p>The second page contains the heart of the directive. It gives instructions to the agent and the doctor, and the critical choices one can choose from; these are discussed below.<\/p><p>The third page contains miscellaneous provisions such as after-death wishes and disposal of remains, and the lines for signature and date.\u00a0 Don\u2019t forget to add notarization or witnesses, or whatever is required by your state.<\/p><p>This form is focused solely on quality of life in part because people understand quality of life. Also a form can&#8217;t possibly specify all the procedures that might come into play.\u00a0 Yet, something can be said for the key ones, viz, resuscitation and artificial breathing.<\/p><p>One advantage of the short form is that doctors, especially emergency room doctors, don\u2019t have time to read six or seven pages from your lawyer. Often doctors don\u2019t even try.<\/p><p>This leads to the need to explain your directive to your surrogate. Your &#8220;letter to my agent&#8221; is critical. Another reason for the separate letter is that you can put your wishes into your own words; you don&#8217;t need to use legal or medical terms. The possible content of the letter to your agent is given in the separate subsection below.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-690b439 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"690b439\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9a56c6e\" data-id=\"9a56c6e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dbbe269 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"dbbe269\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>Here are explanations of the choices that are given on page 2 of the form.  They are progressive.<\/p>\n<ul style=\"margin: -6px 0 0 0;\">\n\n<li>#1. TIME LIMITED TRIALS. How long the trials go is up to your agent in consultation with your doctors.  \n <\/li>\n<li>#2. VEGETATIVE STATE. Nearly all of us don\u2019t want to live in that condition, and this gives you that option.\n<\/li> \n<li>#3. DISCONTINUE MEDICAL INTERVENTIONS. Now quality of life (quality  vs. duration) comes into play. But your quality life is not defined in this form.  Your agent must know your quality-of-life wishes.  That\u2019s the strongest reason that you must have a robust <span class=\"tooltip\">letter to your agent.  <span class=\"tooltiptext\">Of course the letter is preceeded with robust conversations with your agent.<\/span><\/span>\n<\/li> \n<li>#4. ASSISTED FEEDING. This section says don't entice me to eat.  Let me eat what I want, and no more.<\/li>\n<li>#5.  There are four choices within #5, but they are preceded by a statement, if checked, that they are \"not to be implemented if they put my agent or any of my caregivers at criminal risk\"  by initiating <span class=\"tooltip\">Stopping Eating and Drinking (SED) <span class=\"tooltiptext\">SED is used here, because the patient is not initiating VSED him\/herself.  That is, it is no longer voluntary.  See the deep dive page.<\/span><\/span>.  This is because the laws in most states are not clear that the agent can institute SED.  This issue is discussed further in <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/deep-dive\/\">Deep Dive<\/a>. The four choices for instituting SED are: <\/li>\n<ul>\n <li>Whenever I show no desire to eat or drink.<\/li>\n <li>Even if I show a desire to eat or drink.<\/li> \n <li>Even if I say, utter, or otherwise indicate that I wish to eat or drink.<\/li>\n <li>Even if I say, utter, or otherwise indicate that I wish to live.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-441a4c3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"441a4c3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Please be aware that by choosing one of these four, and NOT checking #5 put the agent and caregivers at risk of criminal prosecution, probably for murder. The exception is Nevada, where the law allows instituting SED. One purpose of having #5 in this fashion is to make people aware of the need for changes in the laws to permit SED in the other states.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bfc7eba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bfc7eba\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-71458c1\" data-id=\"71458c1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79f1b16 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"79f1b16\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"topics\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34ef487 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"34ef487\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">SPECIAL FORM FOR PEOPLE WITH EARLY STAGE DEMENTIA<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5b85d99 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5b85d99\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1fad9b0\" data-id=\"1fad9b0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d707dbc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d707dbc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The instructions with <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/early_dementia_directive.pdf\">this form<\/a> explain it in detail and so are not repeated here. The form is unique in that it is one of the first, if not the first, to not only give an option for SED by AD, but also to explain the criminal risk to the agent, the family and others that may be involved in terminating nutrition and hydration after decisional capacity is lost. Also included in the form is a work-around of the problem of criminal risk.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-12c6a6ff elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"12c6a6ff\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6065cb67\" data-id=\"6065cb67\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-83ffdf4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"83ffdf4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"letterA\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c62b7db elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2c62b7db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR AGENT<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b416f67 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b416f67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Below are some topics that might be included in your letter to your agent. Write anything you want that expands on what you have in your advance directive. Write in your own words, the way you feel. There is only one limitation:<strong>&nbsp;you must not be inconsistent with what you have written in your advance directive.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The letter need not be formally executed. That is, it need not be notarized or witnessed as your state requires.&nbsp;&nbsp;You may want to give your letter to your primary care physician or write him or her a separate letter.<\/p>\n<p>That said, it would be wise (best practice) to execute the letter at the same time as you execute your advance directive, and have it attached to your directive when you have it notarized or witnessed. But this is not necessary. Nonetheless, it should be referenced in your advance directive. Also note in your directive that the letter may be changed or amended from time to time without amending your directive. Of course any change or new letter must not be inconsistent with your advance directive (in such case, change the advance directive too).<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6e0ae946 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6e0ae946\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78db0543\" data-id=\"78db0543\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-14025572 elementor-widget elementor-widget-menu-anchor\" data-id=\"14025572\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"menu-anchor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-menu-anchor\" id=\"topics\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-307ef1d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"307ef1d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">POSSIBLE TOPICS FOR YOUR LETTER<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-98edd22 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"98edd22\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-14d3ae\" data-id=\"14d3ae\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b02df2d elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"4b02df2d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ol>\n\t<li> Give detail on what your end-of-life wishes are&mdash;what you want, or don\u2019t want. Be specific. For example you may want to express your ability to: <\/li>\n\t<ul>\n\t\t<li> live in your own home <\/li>\n\t\t<li> partake in activities that you enjoy <\/li>\n\t\t<li> recognize and communicate with family and friends <\/li>\n\t\t<li> not live with pain, especially pain that is persistent and incurable. <\/li>\n\t<\/ul>\n\t<li> Would you like to have hospice care when appropriate? <\/li>\n\t<li> Who in your family, or among your friends, the agent might like to consult with, or who s\/he should not consult with, and maybe why. <\/li>\n\t<li> Where, such as at home, you would like to spend your last days. <\/li>\n\t<li> Whom you would like to spend your last days with; whom would you rather not. <\/li>\n\t<li> If you are open to hastening your death, explain what this means to you, and perhaps what led you to this view. <\/li>\n\t<li> Include any thoughts you have about how you want to live if you get dementia, such as: <\/li>\n<ul>\n\t<li> Do you want to shorten your life to avoid the last stages of the dementia? <\/li>\n\t<li> If so, how do you want to do that? <\/li>\n\t<li> And at what point in the progression? <\/li>\n\t<li> See the discussion in the <a href=\"dementia\">Dementia<\/a> section. <\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t<li> Importance or unimportance of religion in your life and your final time in this world. <\/li>\n\t<li> Explain in more detail your wishes about organ donation, disposal of your body. <\/li>\n\t<li> Why you have or haven\u2019t executed a <a href=\"https:\/\/finalexodus.org\/EndOfLife\/other-choices-for-ending-life#polst\"> Physicians Order for Life Sustaining Treatment (POLST). <\/a> <\/li>\n\t<li> What ever else seems important to you for your agent to know, even though you may have discussed such with her or him. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Advance Directives \u201cAn Advance Directive is only as strong as the\u00a0surrogate who enforces it.\u201d Final Exit Network newsletter Fall, 2020 SOME BASICS Now that you have done extensive Planning, it is time to get all that effort condensed into your advance directive. 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